If you have been following this blog for any extended period of time then you might know that I have been engaged for 17 months but who's counting a little while. Recently Ross and I made the decision to wait on the wedding. We have had so many things going on since we moved so it really made sense for us to put the wedding on hold and focus on our jobs and lives for a while.
However, something changed the other day when I saw a link to some pictures from a wedding last summer on Cape Cod. I immediately sent the link to my mom and one of my best friends and called the venue to find out about their weddings. I actually have seen the website for this venue before and didn't think much of it but after seeing these pictures something just clicked for me and I was in love. I started picturing my mom, bridesmaids and I getting ready, walking down the aisle with my dad and dancing with Ross for the first time. I started thinking about bachelorette parties, bridesmaid dress shopping and sipping mimosas while wedding planning during the warm summer months.
So here I am, stuck between the decision that Ross and I already made and my overwhelming desire to run to the venue, pick a date and plan my wedding! Every time I flip flop and change my mind again (which has happened like 10 times over the past 17 months) Ross gets so frustrated, so I am trying to keep this to myself at least for this week while he settles into his new job.
Have any fellow brides out there found wedding decisions to be so absurdly difficult too?
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It's tough when you guys want to do one thing, but then something really amazing comes along and makes you rethink it - you're doing the right thing by letting him settle into his job - but if it's the exact place you want - check it out and he might feel the same way!
ReplyDeleteI think it is a good sign that you felt an immediate connection to the place :) its nice that you just happened to come across it vs. seeking it out!
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I think you should just wait it out and let things fall in to place, but if you want to be married, you really should just go for it because in the end it will be perfect no matter how hard it turns out.
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A Cape Cod wedding would be awesome! What's the name of the venue? We visited the Truro Vineyard last summer for a bachelorette party, and I couldn't help but think to myself how it would be the perfect spot to get married! I just have to get engaged first... ;)
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